Yesterday I rang the ESMP and spoke to a gentleman and explained my dilemma about William Charles WEBER. He said he could not help me but he would pass on the information to the Records Officer and have him ring me back.
Well, true to his word, the Records Officer rang me back today.
Eureka!!!!!
The records at ESMP for William Charles WEBER, who was interred 19 September 1945 shows a reference to Roll 714. This reference relates to Frederick William WEBBER (Rosina's other brother) who was cremated at ESMP on 28 May, 1945. His grave reference states Grave 0 but also records "ashes into grave 19 September 1945 by D Speechly". The same date that William Charles' ashes were put into Rosina's grave!
The end result is that William Charles WEBER is Frederick William WEBBER.
ESMP will update the online database to reflect the correct information. Thank you ESMP.
So, in Rosina's double grave she is at rest with both her brothers and her devoted husband.
Aunty Jan, my guardian angel in family history, has been pushing me in the right direction so I could solve this information. It is also ironic that it was solved on 30 October 2012 on the eve of the first year of her passing.
God Bless you Aunty Jan and I look forward to breaking that other brick wall. I know you're working on it.
I miss you so!